Wow, you have been really busy, Stacey! Good luck with all of that. Please take good care of yourself while achieving your goals. Miss you! love -felix, from WA
Note from Stacey
Life is getting very hectic for me. I have two classes at the College of San Mateo, and I’ve been training at the track and the climbing gym every day. Most days I have been exercising two or three times! I am also job-hunting in earnest, going to informational sessions and filling out applications at various organizations. In addition, I have quite a few medical appointments and obligations. It is great to be feeling well enough to do all these things, although it is a struggle to be fast-paced. Stacey, from Belmont
Note from Stacey
Denise, what cute news about Mia! Thanks for stopping by the site. I’m starting to have more energy, and things are getting more social now. I’m trying to eat more and gain some weight. Sunday night, I had dinner with Cindy and Guy. We had pork chops, shrimp, soup and corn. Monday, I had homemade pizza with Dave and Tuesday, burritos with Dave and Robin. Monday, I also started a computer class called Windows Fundamentals I, and spent the afternoon at the College of San Mateo. Tuesday, Rhona came over for gen mai tea (brown rice tea) and then we climbed together with Fitz. I tried some difficult overhang climbs and ended up resting a lot on the rope! I’m also doing a little speed climbing for aerobic exercise. It gets me breathing hard and opens up my lungs. Stacey, from Belmont
Note from Denise Wirth
Hi Stacey, You sound great and it was fun to talk with you last night. I agree that it is best for you to focus on health and personal development at this stage, and stick to your doctor’s advice about being extra extra careful until at least a year after the setback – which means next spring. Another setback would be frightening, letting your body heal from the last episode is the best thing you can do for yourself. It’s great that you are keeping focused on this. Mia had her one-year physical last week and she is 9.5 kilos and 75 cm. That’s a nice size. She is a climbing maniac. I never saw a one-year old that could climb so well. She must get it from you. She is always on a table or chair and she even tried to climb a ladder. If you give her a toy she will try to climb on top of it (ball, truck, barn, whatever). That girl is a sheclimber! Love you lots, Denise Wirth, from Riga
Note from Stacey
Karen, thank you so much for writing! I’ll be in touch with you the next time I go to the UU Church. I’ve been keeping busy lately. Wednesday, I met Greg, Ana and Isa to do stadium steps. I did 10 trips up and down, running 50 out of 80 stairs on the last one! Isa did 10 with a 25-lb backpack, training for their 8-mile backpacking trip this weekend. Thursday, I saw Vinita and Zenid at the gym again, and climbed mostly 5.10’s. Friday, I signed up for a badminton class at the College of San Mateo. It was fun. I’m going to take a computer class as well. Saturday, I met Greg and Mike at the track. We practiced running…I did a workout of 8 sprints within a mile of walking. Then we all did the long jump. I saw some improvement, but I have a long way to go! Today, Sunday, I walked the dish with Sharon. It is a 3.5 mile loop. At first, I didn’t feel like I could do it, because I was feeling tired, but Sharon is really good company and before I knew it, we were over halfway done and past the turning back point. It was beautiful as usual, with perfect weather, and we had the privilege of seeing a group of three deer grazing happily by the side of the trail. Stacey, from Belmont
Note from Karen Skold
Hi, Stacey– I’ve been thinking about you recently and decided to check your website to find out what’s up. Sounds like you are doing great now. I’m so sorry I missed you when you came to the UU church a few weeks ago. That was one Sunday I missed because of sleeping late! I hope I will see you there again. Could you send me an email when you plan to go so I will know to look for you? <[email protected]> If you happen to come on Sept 4 (Labor Day weekend), you will definitely see and hear me, because I will be playing the prelude, offertory, and postlude on my trumpet. Just in case you and your friends aren’t climbing next Sun afternoon, I am playimng in a community band concert at 3pm in Spangenberg Aud at Gunn HS. I’s free, and we are a pretty good band for amateurs. You are invited! Karen Skold
Note from Stacey
Felix, its great to hear from you! It sounds like you are having fun on your trip. Rehab is going better. Yesterday, I met with Will Bowers at the track and he had me do lots of drills to improve running technique. We also did assessment tests, including the “Flying 30” and the standing broad jump. I climbed with Vinita and Zenid last night. It was really rewarding and challenging, because I have started to play on the 5.11’s. I am managing to get to the top with minimal cheating and some hang-dogging (resting on the rope.) Today, I am off to make copies of a resume so I can find a good part-time job, and I am going to swing by the community college to see if there are any interesting classes I can sign up for… On a spiritual note, a couple weeks ago I went to the Unitarian Church in Palo Alto. The topic of the sermon was “compassionate non-violent communication.” The speaker had us do an exercise in which we imagined someone we are having trouble with and, before lashing out in anger or giving the silent treatment, close our eyes and try to imagine what it must feel like to be the other person in this situation and to think of how we can act compassionate. Whew! Pretty tough task in most cases, but in cases like life-long family relationships, mighty important…in most cases, the relationships are worth saving. Stacey, from Belmont
Note from Felix
Hi Stacey! I am still in Oregon. It is good to see you are still climbing in the gym and climbing steps at Stanford. At least your climbing is getting better (mine is getting worse!) Have been biking quite a bit out here but losing upper body strength pretty rapidly (partly as a result)… have now resolved to hit the gym wherever there is a 24-hour Fitness in the cities I visit (since I still have membership there). There are like 12 in the Portland area, but virtually none in the rest of the state. Anyhow, happy b-day to Dave! Take care and ttys. love, -Felix, from Oregon
Note from Stacey
Today had several encouraging moments. The first was waking up and not feeling tired, after a solid ten hours of sleep. The second, going to the track and practicing running with my friends Marty and Debra. I have cut off over a second on my 100m dash time already, and I think I could go faster, but I’ll have to work up to it. Third, I saw a job opening I am going to apply for…lastly, I am working on harder climbs in the gym now. I made it up a crimpy slab 5.10d (intermediate level)with three falls today. Even though I cannot climb them without falling, the harder climbs are fun and challenging because of the more complicated moves. Doing them is also building my finger strength back up again. Stacey, from Belmont
Note from Stacey
It was my housemate Dave’s birthday on Thursday, and I have been spending a lot of time with him this week. Thursday, I made chicken stir-fry with sweet rice wine (his favorite) and also organized a little birthday potluck for Friday with his best friends, Mark and Eva, at our house. Friday dinner was special…salmon marinated with lemon herb sauce, salad, rice, cous cous, sushi and birthday cheesecake. Afterwards, the three of them went climbing, but I went to bed as usual. Speaking of birthdays, today, Aug. 13th, is my niece Mia’s 1ST BIRTHDAY! Happy birthday, little one! Denise, give her a big hug and kiss for me! Stacey, from Belmont