Denise, Thank you so much for the ski picture. It is adorable! I’ll bet Sophia picked up skiing quickly. That’s great you are able to rent a cabin with friends. I have had a busy weekend. On Saturday, I attended a Youth Climbing League competition in Santa Clara. It was great to see all the kids having fun and visit with the parents. The YCL director, Allison Levy, is having a silent auction fund-raiser for me to help with expenses for the U.S. Transplant Games trip in June. On Sunday, I got sick at the coffee shop…it surprised me, because I have not thrown up for a couple weeks and thought I was over it. The nausea was short-lived, and later I met a friend named Kent to climb at the gym. It was a great climbing day…I worked my way up a 5.11d overhang with four falls. It was the best climbing I have done since the transplant. Later, on a climb next to me, a 3-year-old was crying, stuck and scared 20 feet above the ground. My inner youth coach took over, and I climbed up to comfort her and help her down. She calmed down quickly and made it safely to the ground, much to her relief. Sunday night, my friend Cindy had Dave, Kent and me over for dinner. She made Tandoori chicken, salad, and sauteed apples. We all brought food to add, and it was really enjoyable. It reminded me of old times when we had a tight group of climbing friends. I look forward to hosting a dinner at our apartment. Today, I am working on classes and the newsletter again. They keep me very busy. I am much happier being busy and learning new things these days. Stacey, from Belmont
Note from Denise
Hi Stacey, We’re just back from a weekend of skiing – actually it was only 1 1/2 hours of skiing in total, but the idea is to get Sophia comfortable with it and have a good time. We rented a cabin with two other families – all the kids were about the same age and they all went skiing together and had ski lessons. Then we went inner-tubing afterwards (I was scared, Sophie was thrilled). Boy were we tired when we got home. Here’s a picture of S with Una, her ski teacher. Love you! Denise, from Riga
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Hi Denise, I’m so glad the girls are enjoying the package! Thanks for writing. I have been busy with my classes and editing the TRIO newsletter. I have also been getting some good exercise in badminton class. I have been playing with a new partner named Javier, who has played for many years. With him, I can practice important skills that I will need for the 2006 Transplant Games in June. Stacey, from Belmont
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Hi Stacey, I can’t even tell you how much the girls loved your’Christmas extras’ package. Sophia is wild about the monkeys. She is mapping out their position in the monkey family tree (she immediately collected all her other monkeys and lined’em up). One now has a purse at all times and the other has shorts (his-and-hers outfits). And of course both are wearing matching yellow’livestrong’ plastic belts that are NOT bracelets. Mia could care less about the monkeys (nothing personal, it’s her age) but she thinks the box you sent is just the greatest. She is filling and emptying it over and over and of course climbing on it. Sophie tried to take it to make a monkey-car and Mia shrieked and stomped her feet. Thanks for the great presents, Aunt Stacey! Love, Denise, from Riga
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Felix, thanks for the encouraging article. I guess I should continue planning for retirement at 65, eh? The past month, during the winter break (without classes) has been difficult. Without a daily schedule, my mind wandered temporarily into a blank void and I felt down and lethargic, (except for climbing.) My friend Amelia does energy work and she generously gave me a free session. I mentioned wanting to feel more motivated, and we explored some feelings and goals. It has been a couple weeks and life is really picking up since then. Classes started today and I am indeed feeling more motivated! I feel good learning new skills, being out in the world. I have also been getting out with some friends. On Thursday, I went to a TRIO (Transplant Recipients International Organization) meeting with my friend Marcus. I am the new editor, so it was important that I attend. Friday, I hiked the Stanford dish route (about 3 1/2 miles) with Rhona. It was great to enjoy nature again. Saturday, I coached a lesson at the climbing gym, then worked on the newsletter. Sunday I coached another lesson at the gym, then I spent a relaxing day with Dave…we found a beautiful new park trail called Laurelwood, and then climbed at the gym. I am happy to say I am working my way up some 5.11 top-rope climbs on good days, with rests, although most climbs I can do without falling are rated 5.10a. On Monday, I met with new friend named Christine at Rinconada Park in Palo Alto. Christine’s seven-year-old son Zachary is living on oxygen, and awaiting a double-lung transplant at Stanford Hospital. We strolled around the park and my old neighborhood. I showed them the house that I lived in as a child (Zachary’s age) on the corner of Harker and Harriet streets. Zachary thoroughly enjoyed playing on the swings and going down the slide (with his oxygen tank close behind.) His laughter warmed my heart. He clearly knows how to enjoy the moment. As we walked, he energetically bunny-hopped ahead, pushing the stroller with two tanks in the seat. At the playground, I did some exercising– alking and jogging around the 1/4 mile track. I also tried pull-ups on the playground, and to my delight, I managed one set of five in a row…a definite improvement since the last time I tested myself. In my pre-transplant days, I was able to do 15 sets of five in one day…but this is a good start, and I was pleased. Stacey, from Belmont
Note from Felix
I thought you would like this article, Stacey! It is about Carroll Shelby (a man), who is a legend in the automotive world. Almost two decades ago (I think) he received a heart transplant, and apparently at age 83 he is still going strong. I say this because he was recently seen driving a prototype at 85-130 mph (depending on who you believe) and doing wheelies in front of Ford engineers! http://tinyurl.com/796n6 Take care, Stacey! love, -felix, from Fort Collins
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Happy b-day to Ana and Isa! The cake and sushi party sounded yummy. Funny about forgetting your age too, Stacey… that is a good sign! You are only as old as you feel anyhow! Well talk to you soon! -felix, from Fort Collins
Note from Stacey
Last Thursday, Marilyn and I brought a cake to the Stanford heart/lung transplant support group to celebrate Isa and Ana’s birthday. It said, “Happy Birthday, Isa and Ana. 34 and not dead yet.” (A take-off from a Monty Python theme…and a tribute to them for surviving and thriving well past the average Cystic Fibrosis patient lifespan.) Things must be going well for me, because I actually forgot how old I am. My step-sister Angie reminded me of my age…much to my surprise I realized I am actually 38 and not 37 like I told everyone in October… On Sunday, Ana and Isa had the most glorious sushi dinner birthday party at Ana’s new house. The food was spectacular. There were edamame beans, homemade miso soup, platters of Japanese veggies, sashimi, eel, seaweed salad, cucumber salad, and sushi rice. Everyone made their own hand rolls with the ingredients. There were 13 people and the setting was very elegant. We all stuffed ourselves for hours and topped it off with ice cream cake. Andrew, Isa’s husband, did a professional solor of the “Happy Birthday” song with beautiful tone. The sushi party will be an event to remember all year. Stacey, from Belmont
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Last night I had the most wonderful Japanese dinner with Isa, Ana, and Andrew. Isa set out a myriad of homemade Japanese dishes and it was very delicious. I intend to get the recipes! Afterwards, we all cuddled with Rupie, Isa’s dog. We can’t help it; she is too adorable for words. (She had just been given a bath after a day of hiking with the twins.) I climbed with Rob today. I have been coachinng him to the best of my ability. He is improving his footwork a lot. He also said I have improved in my conditioning. I was happy to hear it! Today, I made it up an 5.11b with just a few falls. It was a great feeling. It looks like eventually I’ll be climbing at a good level again. Stacey, from Belmont
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Denise, Thanks so much for the picture and news from Latvia! I climbed at the gym today with a friend named Pat. Climbing seems to be going pretty well, although I take it easy. I got sick at the top of a climb yesterday, and had to be lowered in a hurry. But I continue to climb several times per week. It’s something I can do with friends that also keeps me strong. I’ve also discovered a new simple and tasty recipe. I sauteed tilapia in mirin, japanese sweet cooking sake, along with mushrooms. I served it with green beans and rice on the side. It was quite satisfying. Happy New Year’s Day, and best wishes for the upcoming year. Stacey, from Belmont